Father of six credits the FATHER Project with helping him to be a better parent

"I’ve made some big changes now and have become role models for my kids." - JuVane

JuVane is a proud father to six kids. He says he enjoys spending time with his kids and watching them learn from him. Not long ago, however JuVane was struggling with the stress of a number of issues including unemployment and making child support payments.

JuVane a Minneapolis resident, came to the FATHER Project because he was having difficulty paying child support for his six children. At the time, he didn’t realize all of the services and support available at the FATHER Project . 

After coming to the FATHER Project, he soon realized his situation was not unique. “It was nice to come here and realize I’m not the only one with these issues. It’s a relief to come to groups and get advice from other guys who’ve been through a similar situation. Child support used to be an uphill battle for me, but the FATHER Project really helped me out.”

JuVane learned about the FATHER Project from a friend who said they could help him get his child support under control. He found they could also provide tutoring to help him make progress on his educational goals. . “They have been very patient with me while I’ve been studying for my GED. They kept pushing me when I didn’t want to keep doing it.” His hard work paid off when recently he earned his GED diploma.

“I’ve made some big changes now and have become role models for my kids especially my oldest son. He’s now learning by watching my behavior. My girlfriend and the kids tell me my attitude is much better now and recently my oldest son told me, ‘I’m proud of you,’ ” JuVane said.

Though he’s still looking for a job, JuVane says his goal would be to get into the computer industry someday, like his brother. He is also considering going through the Goodwill/Easter Seals Automotive Skills Training Program. “My main goal is finding a job and staying on the right path so my kids see me headed in the right direction,’ says JuVane. “I’m just trying to keep them safe and make good decisions.”

“It’s like one big family here. Everyone leaves their differences at the door.”  JuVane and his children still come to the FATHER Project often, and his girlfriend Regina is also involved. “My girls regularly come to the Play and Learn groups and love it. You’ll have to get a trespassing sign to keep me away from here,” he joked. “The FATHER Project is great!” 

Hear JuVane speak about parenting and being a father.