In 2020, Bo and his spouse moved to Rochester with the goal of starting a software development business. However, following their divorce in 2021, Bo’s life shifted.
Recognizing the need for support, Bo sought therapy for both him and his children. “FATHER Project was a recommendation from my therapist,” Bo explained. “The program came at a very crucial time and changed the trajectory of my family.”
Finding connection and support at FATHER Project
“It was tough,” Bo said of being a self-employed single parent. But Goodwill-Easter Seals Minnesota’s FATHER Project provided Bo with a connection to other single parents. “I got more out of the parenting groups than I expected. It helped me put things into perspective, especially because getting divorced was an unfathomable thing for me. I never imagined going through that and having moved to Rochester mid pandemic, I was going through this without any social support.”
Connecting with other parents made a difference. “Getting to hear from other dads who were going through or had gone through similar things and navigating next steps was extremely crucial,” Bo explained.
Bo's Career Evolution
After completing FATHER Project’s program, Bo was offered the opportunity to become a part-time parent group facilitator to facilitate group meetings, host events and create a space for parents to connect and support one another. “It was another way to give back and build community. It was a fun opportunity,” Bo said.
As the pandemic subsided, Bo had to close his business and he credits the skills he learned at FATHER Project for helping him navigate this transition. “I was more knowledgeable on how to go about getting employment,” Bo explained.
In November 2023, Bo was offered a career navigator position at FATHER Project. “It was cool because I could talk about what I just experienced and learned through the program,” Bo said.
Bo’s career continued to evolve, and by June 2024, he transitioned to the role of FATHER Project engagement coordinator within partner organization Family Service Rochester. In his new role, Bo helps parents navigate emotional and financial stability.
FATHER Project partners with Family Service Rochester
In 2024, FATHER Project supported 64 fathers in Olmsted County, according to Kelli DeCook, director of child welfare at Family Service Rochester. “Nearly 85% of the program’s participants secured, maintained or advanced in their careers, earning an average of $19.23 per hour. Additionally, 97% of participants attended parenting groups, building a strong community of support,” Kelli added.
“The partnership between Family Service Rochester and Goodwill-Easter Seals Minnesota is a testament to the power of collaboration,” Kelli continued, “combining resources and expertise helps us create a more comprehensive support system for parents striving to build better futures for their families.”
Learning to be a present parent
Reflecting on his journey, Bo shared, “FATHER Project helped me place a giant premium on spending time with my kids, not just being in the same room, but truly engaging with them.”
He added that he learned the importance of work-life balance and making the time to participate in his children’s school activities. “It encouraged me to do those things without feeling guilty about taking time off from work,” he said. “It really shaped the way I parent and it helped reframe the impact that my small actions have on my kids.”
Advocating for other fathers
In February 2025, GESMN was at the Minnesota Capitol bringing together FATHER Project participants, community advocates and legislators to highlight the importance of supporting fathers and their families. Bo testified before the Minnesota House Workforce Committee, sharing his story to further highlight the positive outcome of supporting fathers.
“It takes just a handful of dads realizing the power of being available to one another,” Bo said of the impact of FATHER Project. “Being present, offering encouragement and providing a safe space to vent and share struggles can help others make informed decisions. The exponential impact can reach multiple families, creating a lasting generational impact.”
Learn more about the impact of the 20 programs and services GESMN offers to create career possibilities to over 5,500 Minnesotans each year.
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